14.05.2007
I left my heart at Papa’s House
We were fortunate enough to spend one night at Papa’s House with “Papa” (Michael Hess, who organized our volunteer placement) and his thirty odd gaggle of gorgeous children. They are orphans or children whose parents cannot afford to house and school them. Michael hails originally from the USA and has spent some three years building up the orphanage from its initial destitution to the joyous and well-run home we visited yesterday.
Well, I think those children stole my heart and a big part of it is still there at Papa’s House. We have never met a more fantastic bunch of kids. I think I fell in love with each and every one of them, and how can you not, when they shower you, a stranger, with hugs and kisses, as though you are a long lost sister? They are the most affectionate, loving, open, friendly, well-behaved and selfless kids we have ever met! Our time with them was brief but incredibly precious, and even though we came bearing gifts from our friends in Australia, we felt as though they had given US so much more.
When we arrived, they were all engrossed in a movie. After about forty-five minutes, there was a curious crowd at our doorway, eyeing the three bags of toys in our room. Poor Vincent was trying to stem the tide by himself, as I was off having a shower! He told them to “Wait for sister” and they did, patiently, and when I came back and opened the first bag and beckoned for them to come in, the tide became a roar and then a feeding frenzy!

We sat completely overwhelmed and laughing as more than twenty children ripped through the toys like there was no tomorrow! Every child chose a few toys for him or herself, and we were completely amazed that there was no fighting, only the occasional excited shove. Everyone was delighted with what they got, even the ones who only managed to score a few pens. Many children came up to me to ask before they could lay claim to their chosen toy. All of them came up with beaming smiles and an emphatic “Thank you, sister!!” and a hug, kiss or maybe just a heartfelt squeeze of the hand. In ten minutes it was all over, and we sat there, two very stunned people, with three empty bags! Not a single toy or pen was left – each one went to a happy home. The older children probably didn’t stand a chance, but they were happy to watch the excitement of the younger ones.



Later, I was treated to a tour of the girl’s floor – as soon as they spotted me, I was surrounded by a group of little girls who took my hand and all wanted me to visit their rooms. Again, they melted my heart with hugs and kisses, and presented me with their drawings as a thankyou. (Many had drawn posters with their new crayons or colour pencils, with “Welcome to Australia Brother and Sister” in big letters or the like!) I could have happily spent all night with them, but bedtime came too soon. I saw plenty of Winnie the Poohs and other new soft toys sitting proudly on beds. I noticed that each child had perhaps one or two other toys only, so the gifts must have made them incredibly happy. The clothes went down a real treat as well, as were the balloons, and of course the pens and pencils and crayons.

We spent some time the next morning with them, and it was very hard to leave in the end. They went through a little photo album I had brought along, with snaps of family and our wedding, and each child wanted a photo from the album as a memento! I wrote a little message on the back for each one, and now there are some 17 photos of our family and our wedding day at Papa’s House!
I wasn’t sad when we left though – who could really be sad when there is so much joy around? Their comradeship, respect for others, joie de vivre and abundant love was simply palpable. We left knowing that in this part of the world, something is being done exactly right for once – Michael has done such a great job in providing a happy and secure home for these kids who came from incredibly unfortunate backgrounds.
If anyone is thinking about coming to the orphanage to volunteer (they always need English teachers at the school, and improving kids’ English is a key to a bright future – we saw the results of the volunteer teachers who have come in the past, as most of the children have excellent English) they will have an experience that cannot be equaled. If you stay at Papa’s House, you will be loved, cherished and appreciated as though you are a dear friend by thirty beautiful children. They ask for nothing apart from some time to talk, perhaps a written note as a memento, and the opportunity to thank you for being there. I thoroughly recommend this to anyone who is thinking about it, and they can view Michael’s website www.nepalorphanshome.org for more information. Donations for the kids are always welcome as well, and you can donate via the website.




